10 Reasons Your Husband Fell Out Of Love With You
Below are 10 reasons why your husband fell out of love with you
1. Lack of communication.
When you start a new relationship, there is an abundance of sharing. Couples talk about anything and everything as they get to know each other. They fall in love with the parts that relate to each other.
There are 4 ways that communication is affected: criticism, contempt (sarcasm and name-calling), defensiveness, and lapping (the silent treatment that is caused by the other three).
Communication is disrupted because there is no effective way to sit down and discuss issues in a healthy way.
2. Clingy Wife
Clinginess can easily manifest as neediness: constantly texting him, wanting to spend all your time with him, dropping your life for him, and expecting him to do the same. It’s not shocking that this behavior is a major turn-off for men.
Making him your whole world is the surest way to make him abruptly leave that world and go on without you.
3. Love wasn’t really love.
Sometimes we confuse lust with love. If a relationship started from an affair, or is in recovery, you are more likely to confuse lusts and desires with true love.
People also go through difficult life changes: illness, financial difficulties, and other life changes. But when you are in a love relationship, there is still a commitment and a choice “for better or worse.”
Lust diminishes when all responsibility begins to be taken.
4. You Have Not Met Your Needs
We have needs in romantic relationships. If those needs are not met, love dies.
Sexual satisfaction, support and admiration are the basic needs of a man. Have you underestimated the importance of these things?
5. You haven’t made enough effort to solve marital conflicts
Problems are common in every marriage. Both spouses need to have the ability to constructively work through those problems. When a wife avoids finding solutions to marital problems, leaving her husband holding the bag, love eventually dies.
6. You stopped caring about your appearance
When you first met your husband, you probably tried very hard to be your best self. But as the years passed and his place in your life became more permanent, all those efforts just didn’t seem so important anymore.
7. You Rejected Him Sexually
Sex is also an expression of love between two people. Few women understand that men bond with their partner through the act of sex. It is true! Marital sex, for men, is a way to feel closer to their spouse.
8. Being a mother was first on your list of priorities
Without your husband, you wouldn’t have children to put first. For that reason, don’t be surprised when your husband falls out of love due to feeling ignored, unimportant and dismissed.
9. It Was Impossible to Please
No matter what he did, he never thanked you. He did the dishes and you bit him for not cleaning the countertops. He worked overtime to take you on your dream vacation and you cried the entire time you were on the trip.
Whatever he did, you took his efforts for granted and showed no appreciation for his efforts.
10. You changed after you married him
Before the marriage, you were up for anything. You enjoyed hanging out with him, doing things he was interested in. You were invested in your career, had a full and fulfilling life. You were the total package!
Source:divorcedmoms.com, powerofpositivity.com, justbeingme.in
