No One Enters a Marriage Expecting Their Partner To Be ᴜɴғᴀɪᴛʜғᴜʟ.
However, the sad reality is that ɪɴғɪᴅᴇʟɪᴛʏ in marriages does happen, especially in modern times, where social media is infiltrating our lives, and different options are constantly making themselves available, and tempting people to make decisions that are not responsible or appropriate ones.
In this article, we will briefly go over some of the top warning signs, in no specific order, according to psychologists and marriage experts that your spouse is being ᴜɴғᴀɪᴛʜғᴜʟ to you, and what you should consider if you believe you are in this situation.
Sign 1: THEIR SCHEDULE CHANGES WITH NO GOOD EXPLANATION
Most people have predictable schedules, and even if their schedule changes, there’s usually a reason that makes sense. “Someone who must ‘work late’ all of a sudden at times that go beyond a reasonable explanation may be ¢нєαтιиg,” Coleman says.
That’s especially true if this keeps happening when your partner has no new job, promotion, or project they’re working on.
Sign 2: ACTING ODD AROUND THEIR DEVICES
If your partner is suddenly acting weird around their phone, laptop or other devices, they could certainly be hiding something. The question is, what are they hiding? For all you know they might be planning a grand romantic surprise, but they could also be hiding a secret partner.
If you start to feel strange about it, simply ask your partner if you can view their messages. In the event that your partner picks a fight or acts strange about it, you can be forgiven for thinking your partner is hiding something from you, but you still won’t know what. If this weirdness continues without any surprises, gifts or explanations, your partner might be нєαтιиg.
Sign 3: CONSTANTLY ARGUING
If your partner has done something very wrong, like нєαтιиg, they might be the type of person that would rather slowly poison a relationship than take charge and end it. By picking fights, your partner will push and push until you can’t take it anymore, and YOU are the one that finally breaks up with them, getting them off the hook and not having to admit to their υиfαιтнfυℓ actions.
Sign 4: THEIR FRIENDS DON’T SEEM AS FRIENDLY AS THEY USED TO BE
ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛᴇʀs tend to be less careful about covering their tracks in front of friends versus you. And, of course, people tend to confide in their friends. As a result, “there is a good chance your partner’s friends may know what’s really going on before you do.” Those friends may end up feeling uneasy and anxious around you because they know something you don’t.
Sign 5: CHANGING INTERESTS
It can seem strange when your partner suddenly becomes interested in things that they’ve never cared about, or maybe even hated, in the past. An explanation though of course, is that they’ve met someone else, and they’ve been spending a lot of time with them. At the start of a relationship, most people are influenced by their new found partners, and they’ll start picking up interests and traits to appeal to these new people. If you find that your partner isn’t acting like themselves, it might be because they are acting more like their secret lover.
Sources: dailyfamily.ng, jjw-law.com
