5 things people think $3x does but doesn’t
1. It is/leads to intimacy
Physical intimacy includes other things like touch, hugs, kissing, playing, eye contact, and talking. Another aspect of intimacy is emotional intimacy. $3x can include both, but it is not the only form of intimacy. In fact, it is a result of intimacy and rarely the cause.
2. It fixes relationship problems
Relationship conflict that is not rooted in $3x cannot be solved by $3x. It can give relief from the conflict but it is not therapy or an effective communication style to resolve conflict.
3. Can save a relationship
It doesn’t save relationships. Whatever problems a couple has have to be addressed directly and not under the guise of $3xual intimacy.
4. It is supposed to get better
The sparks and chemistry in new relationships can set the standard for $3x. But it is unrealistic to expect this to be so. This does not mean that there is a glass ceiling on $3xual qualities, but other qualities of the relationship will determine. Connection, compatibility, and communication are key to preserving a thriving $3x life.
5. Lack of it leads to cheating
There are many other reasons for cheating. A lack of communication and an absence of nurturing the relationship bond is among them. If partners are on the same page about their needs and work to find common ground, then cheating is unlikely to happen. So saying that the lack of $3x and poor quality leads to cheating is an excuse and a terrible one at that.
