6 Things Men Want From Women But Stay Mute About
1. Understanding
You can sit down with him and talk about his day, not asking too many questions, just listening to his problems and making him see that he is understood.
You need to know that sometimes, they don’t even want to talk, not because they don’t love you anymore but because they need some alone time.
Understanding that he’s been through a lot and that you are willing to take a step back for a day or two is very important to him.
2. Acceptance
Trying to change him all the time only leads to arguments. If you get to know him in the first place and you decide to start a relationship with him, than there is no need for you to try and change him.
Love him anyways. Accept that he’s not perfect and show him that you don’t judge him for his flaws.
Even when he will probably fail at a lot of things in life, accept him for who he is. That’s the right motivation to make him see that you’ve got his back no matter what.
3. Honesty
Men don’t like being lied to or played. These things simply aren’t attractive and even those ‘white lies’ can make him mad. Therefore, stop hiding things from him and tell him what’s on your mind.
4. Freedom
Men love free spirits and that’s why they hate it when someone tries to take that away from them.
You need to set boundaries of course—freedom doesn’t mean that they can go around cheating—just that you won’t tag along wherever he’s going.
If your man wants to spend a night with his friends at a bar, don’t come along. Let him enjoy it.
5. Your smile
Every time you cry, your man does feel guilty even if he wasn’t the cause for it. He’s feeling bad because he doesn’t know a way to make you feel better.
That’s the reason why your smile is sacred and he knows how to appreciate every time you look at him with that spark in your eyes and a wonderful smile on your face.
6. Cuddles
Cuddling especially in bed is the best therapy. It’s gives your man the opportunity to feel close to you and it’s also a perfect time for him to talk about his feelings—which he wouldn’t do if it was any other scenario.
Random cuddling when he’s just laying in bed and you approach him, kiss him and hug him, means the world to him.
