7 Things That Happen When You Fall In Love With Yourself
1. You learn your value.
When you fall in love with yourself before falling in love with another person, you learn your worth. You learn who you are and what you deserve. You learn that you are someone to be valued and you start appreciating yourself, rather than beating yourself up for every little flaw. Instead of focusing all your time and energy on another person and his/her happiness, you learn what you need and you pursue those things freely.
2. You attract people who value you.
One of the reasons why you continue attracting people who don’t value you is because they clearly see that you don’t love yourself. Once you fall in love with yourself, you are going to start attracting people who will what to level up and treat you even better.
3. Hang out
Being in relationship with someone is difficult because your partner always expect that you will chill out with him only. But being in love with yourself you start hanging out with your friends and you discover new people around you.
4. Confident
You start becoming yourself rather than what others want from you. You laugh, you jump, you smile over the things you like; you become yourself and this adds up confident and comfortableness being you.
5. You are genuinely happy, and create your own positivity.
When you fall in love with yourself first, you do things that add value to your life. You pursue what you’re passionate about. You treat yourself with respect and care. Choosing to love yourself before entering a relationship means you have sought happiness within your own being. You know that only you are in control of your mood—so you choose to create your own happiness every day.
6. You feel whole on your own.
You don’t need a relationship to make you feel satisfied or complete. In fact, when you fall in love with yourself first, you know you’re already whole on your own. You have focused your attention on your needs, desires, and interests. You value who you are and what makes you, you. And instead of desperately searching for love, you let it happen when the timing is right.
7. You have a genuine lust for life.
When you fall in love with yourself first, you learn to love the solo life you live. You love taking yourself on dates or watching the sunset. You love binge-watching your favorite TV show, or having a night on the town with your girlfriends/guyfriends. You love yourself, so, naturally, you have a lust for life. Life, to you, isn’t all about finding love or being in a relationship. And because you have made yourself a priority, you understand this and lead a richer, wholesome life.
