What makes a person INSTANTLY unattractive?? Here are 9 ways you’re unknowingly making yourself unattractive no matter how perfect your face is
1. Being constantly negative
A person’s attractiveness is connected to the way we feel around that person. It doesn’t matter how good looking you are; a sour attitude can sour your attractiveness faster than you would think. We all have days where things don’t work out and we need to vent, but someone who only sees the awful is an awful person themself.
2. Focusing on yourself
There is a line between being confident and being cocky…when you cross into the land of self-absorption, how attractive other people see you totally plummets.
3. Always taking control
If you constantly try to control your partner or make them jealous, you will appear insecure and unattractive. It’s important to give your partner space and trust them.
4. Acting overly competitive
If you always need to prove that you’re amazing at any sport you try out, no one is going to believe you. People like to decide your greatness for themselves not have it sold to them. No one wants to be with someone who is only focused on winning by whatever means necessary, even if you do look like a supermodel.
5. Being rude
Someone who’s crude, impolite or insulting immediately lessens their attractiveness. We are attracted to people who are respectful and kind. Don’t diminish your good looks with a rotten personality or bad jokes.
6. Being a bad listener
If you’re constantly interrupting people or not paying attention when they’re talking, people will find you rude and disrespectful. It’s important to be a good listener and to give people your full attention.
6. Having zero confidence
A lack of confidence can also make you seem unattractive. People will find you less appealing if you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, apologizing for everything, or avoiding social situations. Believing in yourself and your abilities is important, even if you don’t always feel confident.
7. Acting dishonest
It’s near impossible for a person who lies to be attractive because all anyone can see is their dishonesty. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that you can get away with saying whatever you’d like just because you are good looking. Focus on having a beautiful personality to pair with your looks.
8. Being a gossip
If you constantly talk about other people behind their backs, people will find you untrustworthy and two-faced. It’s important to be discreet and to only talk about people if you have something positive to say.
9. Having a bad temper
People will find you volatile and unpredictable if you’re easily angered or have a short fuse. It’s important to control your temper and to be able to handle conflict healthily.
