It is a typical misguided judgment about men that they think more about the looks in a woman. Let’s be realistic, who wouldn’t choose looks at first? What’s most important is, that we should not stick to this one factor- good looks, but should give other qualities more significance, qualities that matter the most and actually make a difference to one’s personality. Here are some traits men like in ladies more than great looks. It’s not always only about the looks, for men.
1. A Good Listener
Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen – no “ I told you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments regarding what you would do if you were in his place. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care. Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you”.
2. Trust and Faith
Men don’t simply think about how beautiful you are, yes they will compliment you each and every day since they admire you and they couldn’t care less about your looks. Moreover, trust is vital. ‘My better half had a harsh past, so it was difficult for me to pick up her trust, however, I attempted my hardest and I, at long last have it, I, at last picked up her complete confidence and trust in me, this felt like an achievement and still is.’- This, for men is a milestone in their relationship.
3. Accomplished And Fulfilled
Women who actually enjoy the things they do are more attractive, which means you should definitely stop whining about the things you DON’T have and start enjoying the things you DO! It’s not about being extremely beautiful, having a good job, an impressive resume or whatnot – it’s about you being happy for who you are as a person, it’s about being positive, about knowing that you’re a great woman who deserves great things. And, believe me, it’s true that bad luck never travels alone, but the same can be said for good luck as well.
4. A Good Cook
The way to enter into a man’s heart is through his belly. Every man loves to eat good food and what better it could be than to have a partner who has the quality to cook good food. Coming home to a scent not only makes the man happy, but he feels satisfied to say, he found a ‘home’ in his partner.
5. Caring
He really wants to know that you care for him but, be careful, because repeating “I love you” until he can’t take it anymore isn’t a good way to let him know how you feel. An average man will tell you that he loves you once and show you how much he loves you five times. You should do the same. Baby him when he’s sick or tired, surprise him every once in a while, listen to his problems – SHOW him everything you wanted to tell him because this quality is one of the very important things Men like in Women.
6. Being Their Backbone
Men adore it when their women back them up and support them in the greater part of their efforts. I firmly have confidence in the idiom that, ‘behind every successful man, there’s a woman’. At the point when your man genuinely adores you, modest and shallow things go out the window and what they expect from you is what’s going to matter over in the long-run.
References: htv.com.pk, mashosti.blogspot.com
