A man may say he is serious about you but if his actions don’t match his words, he probably isn’t. Sometimes, he may not say anything at all but actually show that he is all into you. If you don’t know what the signs are then you are probably going to be left wondering whether you should start investing your feelings in it or not.
1. You are a priority for him
If you feel that you never have to overthink a text, a call, or a weekend plan, it’s because you are already prioritized. We only overthink when we don’t know how we fit into someone’s life because it is not consistent. However, if he calls when he says he will, texts you consistently, and is the one initiating plans then he is actively partaking in building and growing the bond between the two of you.
2. He Involves You In His Decision Making
Another important sign he is serious about you is when he asks for your opinion and listens to whatever you suggest when making his decisions. There is no way a man will involve his woman in his decision making if she is of no value to him.
If you notice him carefully listening to your every word, then you can be assured he’s damn serious about you. It indicates that he wants to know your viewpoint on certain subject matters because, ultimately, he holds you in high regard.
3. He Trusts You
Trust is too important when it comes to relationships. Without trust, it will be difficult to create a strong foundation for any healthy relationship.
How can you tell if your man (or potential man) trusts you? It’s simple; if he’s open and honest with you, then he trusts you enough.
Also, does your boyfriend feel safe when discussing his beliefs, sentiments, insecurities, and feelings with you? If yes, then be assured that he trusts you more than you think. If you are his go-to person when it comes to discussing sensitive situations, sharing new incidents that happened at work, and so on, then he trusts you — and he’s serious about you.
4. He is gradually spending more time with you
If there is anything most men find it difficult to pretend about, it is whether they love spending time with you or they hate it. You will definitely know if a guy enjoys every moment he spends with you. You can equally tell if he doesn’t really like your company.
So, if you notice that he can’t wait to be with you; if you observe that he seizes every single opportunity to spend a moment with you, or that he always initiates the idea of going out on a date with you, then yep, the man is likely serious about you.
5. He talks about the future
If he talks about future plans and always includes you in the plan, then in his mind the two of you are already a ‘we’. This is one of the easiest and most efficient ways to catch if he is really taking the bond seriously. That means he has thought ahead, and in each plan, he sees you right next to him!
