Whether they are little disagreements or loud fights – they’re all a part of long-term relationships. And once you’ve been in enough fights, you learn a thing or two about what is acceptable to say and what is completely out of line. Many of them are easy to point out – you can just reverse the situation and imagine what it would feel like if he said the same hurtful things to you. Seems perfectly reasonable in theory, but it’s easy for all of that to go out of the window in the heat of the moment. Let us help you with some things that you shouldn’t say when you fight with your partner.
1. Break Up
At minor fights, it is never a good idea to end up with saying break up. There can be adjustment issues or trust problems in the beginning. The fight may be on any useless matter, or any situation consistent use of Break up leads to putting pressure and stress on your partner.
2. Divorce
Thinking of divorces can be leading to the ending of relationships. It is never healthy for couples to fight over any kind of issue, that may not need to end up in the topic of divorce.
3. No use talking to you
During the fights, it is always essential to solve the matter by talking to each other. Pathetically it hurts your partner when without informing about the reason for the fight or solution one moves away using these words. “No use talking to you”, is a sign of Dominance in a person.
4. It was a mistake being in a relationship
When you say this, it means that you are not happy being with your partner. Although you just say that to win a fight, it may be never helpful for a long-term relationship. This is one of the worst lines that hurt your partner stating that the relationship is already a failure.
5. I Could find a better than you
This are never tolerable. Your partner has always been a special person but using one of these lines can hurt them. It can extend the fights and create a complicated situation for the couples.
6. Facts from pasts
Repeating the facts or mistakes from the past, and mentioning any ex is never going to help in overcoming the fights. Development of stress in relationships starts with the talks from the pasts at the wrong moments or fights.
