Why He Won’t Invite You To His Apartment?
You’ve been dating your man for a while now. You’ve spent time together in nice restaurants, at the movies, in parks, and after holding hands a few times on your way home, you’ve invited him to see your apartment. However, you still haven’t seen his and every time you offer it to him, he rejects it out of hand.
This is not uncommon, but he may or may not have a valid excuse. Here’s a look at some of the reasons he won’t invite you. Let us know which one you think is best for your situation.
1. He Has a “Secret” Partner/Family
He lives with a partner. Unfortunately, one of the most common reasons a man doesn’t invite someone over to his home is because he has a partner or a family there.
2. He’s Embarrassed About Where He Lives
His apartment may be embarrassingly tiny. It’s not uncommon for a small space to be a reason for not wanting to share. Or He thinks she is out of his league, tries to cover that up he comes from a humble background or has found himself on hard times.
3. He’s Embarrassed About How He Lives
If he’s a hoarder or incredibly messy, then this can cause serious problems down the road should the two of you ever move in together.
4. He’s Not Serious About You and It’s Too Big a Commitment
A lot of guys will not invite a girl over to their place is they’re not that serious about them. It means he doesn’t want to bring you into parts of his life that give you a “hold” on him.
