If you notice these changes with your husband, it means he has a secret crush
1. He’s Being Less Intimate
There are some reasons for a man being less intimate, or even less romantic and affection in general.
One of those reasons could be because he’s constantly thinking about another woman though. More so if he’s getting deeper into an emotional connection with another woman.
2. He’s Taking More Pride in His Appearance
When he suddenly starts putting more effort into his appearance, and it’s not for you, it’s to attract or impress other women.
You might even spot when and where he’s going when he’s making effort and narrow down who he’s seeing. It sounds an alarm though, and often means he has a crush.
3. He’s Jumpy Around You
Maybe it’s because he’s sending secret messages, expecting a message, or just thinking about her.
You’ll know your husband better than anyone. If he’s being more jumpy, you can assume he’s up to something. It’s just a matter of finding out what.
4. He’s Making Less Effort With You
If he starts putting in less effort with you, not paying you as much attention, and becoming less interested in what you’re doing – his interest is going elsewhere.
5. He’s Being Secretive About His Phone Messages
If it’s obvious he’s trying to make sure you can’t see who he’s talking to, you should ask and see what he says. If he has nothing to hide he’ll tell you, and he won’t hesitate to think up a lie.
6. He Feels Absent at Times
Does he ever act or feel distant when you’re trying to talk to him? This is a classic sign that he has a lot on his mind. This could mean anything, of course. Such as work, stress, homelife things, etc.
But if you’re spotting some of the other signs that he’s showing affection to another woman, his distant demeanor could be because it’s consuming a lot of his thoughts.