How to Make Your Man Obsessed with You Without Much Effort Or Slᴇᴇping With Him
1. Be you
You have to fully accept yourself and just be you when you are around him. Men may be the simplest creatures but they are not stupid. They can easily sense if you are trying too hard or if you are faking something. You don’t have to worry if you have flaws because everyone does! Do not be afraid to show him the real you, even your negative sides. Your man would surely prefer if you are transparent with him and besides, as the relationship progresses, your true colors would come out eventually. Show it from the start.
2. In Men’s Psychology, Confidence is Sexy
If you have low self-esteem and it is only natural that your man will lose his interest in you.
Although it’s not really easy to be confident when you are naturally introverted, being confident doesn’t necessarily mean you have to mingle with people you’re not acquainted with, or that you have to laugh out loud to be the center of attention. It’s mostly about feeling secure with yourself. When a man sees you being comfortable with who you are or treating yourself special, he will feel proud of you even more, become obsessed, and will make an extra effort to show other people that you’re his woman.
3. Be a Kind Woman
Your attitude towards other people will make him obsessed. Don’t believe those who are saying that goody-two-shoe women are old-fashioned and that men don’t like them, because that’s just wrong! When you are someone who is kind to your man and to others, people will like you and have a good impression of you. Your man will be prouder, show you off, and will become deeply obsessed with you.
4. Be Subtle
Don’t try too hard to keep your man’s attention. It’s okay to have exchanges of ‘I love you’ but don’t overdo it to the point where you have to say it on every text message. It’s okay to compliment your man but don’t act as if he’s on a pedestal and you’re worshiping him.
When you’re trying too hard to show your admiration, what makes you think he’d go crazy over you? Well, you have to know that’s not how men’s psychology works. You have to be subtle sometimes. Some men like it when their women play hard to get. Don’t forget to balance; push him up but let there be times where he has to ask for it first.
5. Be Unavailable Sometimes
Never think that you’re in a relationship so you have to sacrifice your time for yourself to always be available for the other person. You still have your work, responsibilities, and personal affairs to attend to. Besides, in men’s psychology, they don’t want to be shadowed around too much. Which means that you’re not making him go crazy over you if you are always there.
Make yourself unavailable sometimes doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re not going to help him in moments where he’s in need of real support — you just have to let him get up on his feet sometimes. Show him that you are a busy person too, and that you still have your own life. This way, he’ll get curious about what you’re up to and will ask for your time and you won’t have to pester him for company.
