Every Time Your Partner Becomes Distant And Cold, You Need To Do These Things
1. Let your partner be for a while
Though your insecurities are tugging at you, sometimes the best thing to do is to do nothing. When you give them a bit of space, they might solve whatever problem they have. And they might come back to you with renewed affection.
2. Confront them on the issue
You gave them space but nothing has changed? It’s time you should confront them. Ask them point blank what’s wrong. Make sure that you are really listening and not appointing blame. If they feel judged, they might not want to talk about what is bothering them.
3. Never go into a frenzy of self-doubt
Don’t try to blame yourself for whatever is happening. Being distant might be your partner’s way of dealing with their problems and it might not have anything to do with you. Chances are you haven’t done anything wrong.
4. Show them how you feel
You also need to tell them how the situation is making you feel. Make sure that you are talking about your emotions in a rational manner, explaining clearly how them pulling away is affecting you. Don’t blame them and make them feel worst about whatever they are going through.
5. Don’t spy on them
When you feel that something is off, have you ever feel tempted to go through their phone and email to see what’s really going on? Stop immediately! Snooping is a sure way to destroy the trust on which your relationship is built.
So no matter what you do, just never add drama to the situation. Communication and empathy can go a long way. React in a such a way you would like the other to react if you were the one going through something you weren’t ready to share yet. Make sure that you’ve done everything that can be done before deciding to pull the plug.
