Whenever You Feel Lonely In Your Marriage, You Should Do These Things To Solve
1. Ask yourself what exactly is wrong
Before you confront your partner, it’s advisable to know exactly how you feel and the reason for it. What are you missing, what kind of intimacy was there once and you no longer enjoy? Is it s3xual, emotional or intellectual?
2. Confront your partner
You should know that the problem wont’ go away just because you ignore it. The sooner you gather your courage to talk with your spouse about how you are feeling, the higher the chances the problem could be solved.
3. Discuss, don’t attack
Words are important so try to choose them wisely. Don’t back your partner into a corner and don’t blame them for everything! Communicate your feelings clearly and sincerely and give them a chance to tell you how they are feeling and why.
4. Find solutions together
If your partner also sees that the two of you’s marriage is indeed in trouble and that the problem is real, you should find a solution together. Find ways to get closer that are realistic and work for both of you. If your solutions don’t work, give marriage counseling a chance.
