5 Things You Do That Are Really Bothering Your Partner
1. Comparison
Comparing him/her with a friend, colleague, acquaintance or even a family member not only demeans his/her efforts towards your relationship, but also gives them the feeling that they are unable to keep you happy. It might also arouse suspicion in the sense that you are attracted to someone else.
2. Keeping busy with your phone
This not only makes him/her feel irritated, but also unimportant. Unless extremely urgent, keep away those unnecessary texts and calls, you can attend to those later. Cherish each other s company instead. Stalking your crush can also ruin your relationship.
3. Reading but not responding to messages
In this age of social networks, we not only have access to the information of whether the person on the other end has received our text, but also whether they have read it or not. Reply to your partner’s messages as soon as you receive them. In case you are busy, do inform the so that they do not keep boiling with rage till they get a reply from your end, thinking that they don t occupy a place in your priority list. Additionally, never ever hide your Last seen and Read receipts !
4. Checking out other people
The worst thing is your partner catching you ogling at another girl/boy in public, when he/she is out with you. It not only makes your partner insecure, but also kindles a sense of mistrust in them. They are bound to think, If he/she does this when I am right by his/her side, then God knows what he/she will do when I am not around!
5. Browsing their phone without permission
You might be in a relationship, but that does not entitle you to take his/her individuality away. Learn to respect their privacy. If you have trust issues with your partner, confront them directly and have a talk. It is far better than looking up their phone without their knowledge and permission to find out what they have been up to. You lose either way; if they are loyal, you lose their trust, and if they are cheating on you, you lose your faith.
