Every time Your Woman Refuses To Touch You, Do These 4 Things Immediately
1. Communicate.
No matter what reason is, you need to confront the situation. If you keep silent, nothing will change. Sharing your desires is essential, as is listening to her needs. In addition, a lack of communication might have created this distance.
Does she feel seen and heard in the relationship, or is she never in the mood because she usually feels overlooked? Share your feelings with her openly, honestly, and vulnerably without expecting it to lead to something physical.
2. Empathize.
Maybe something has changed, which makes your woman refuse to touch you. She may be experiencing depression or a lack of self-confidence, or maybe she feels like she’s failing at this parenting thing. Even if it is difficult, do everything you can to put yourself in her shoes. Instead of trying to solve, feel her burdens and sit with her. She needs you to see the world from her eyes and to understand her perspective. Empathy builds into emotional intimacy, and often this is what she needs first before opening up to something physical.
3. Romance her.
Kids, work, home projects or many other problems can weaken your romantic side over time, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Be the man who won her heart! Surprise her by getting a sitter and taking her to a nice dinner. Or simplify it by bringing home her favorite wine and dining on your patio after the kids are in bed. Give her some time to destress by setting up a candlelit bath with her favorite essential oils and bath soak. Do this without the expectation of s3xual intimacy.
4. Avoid p0rn.
Watching p0rn not only robs you of genuine desire for your wife but it also create more distance between you. Due to its addictive nature, it rewires the brain by desensitizing you. Once you’re accustomed to p0rn, you’ve trained your brain to need it. And when that happens, what used to turn you on about your wife won’t turn you on anymore. So not only will your wife not want to touch you, but you probably won’t want her to anymore. It’s a disturbing trap that you must avoid.
