4 Best moments in a relationship that define true love
1. When your partner remembers the small details
Remembering the details makes you feel loved because it shows that they listen to what you have to say.
2. When your partner stands up for you, even if they don’t have to
Your partner knows you are your own person and that you can very well formulate your own argument. However, sometimes situations do arise where standing up for you is the harder choice, but they do it. For instance, if your partner’s friends said something rude to you, if they call them out there instead of letting it slide, chances are you’ve struck gold.
3. When they communicate openly
Open, honest and clear communication is another crucial way of feeling loved. If your partner is willing to tell you where exactly they are, why they’re running late or just how it took them four hours to respond, it is a big deal. Unless you absolutely love that person, you’re probably going to spare the details.
4. When you can just exist with each other
Many pairs do not realise it but when even silences become peaceful, you’ve made it. Being able to just sit in each other’s company, without demandingany conversation or shared activity is a comfort that takes months, years, perhaps even decades to build. If you’ve sat with your partner in the same room/house without feeling the pressure of having to do something, you know you’re loved.
