Falling in love with a new person after breaking up is very cool and exciting. You are eager to know stuffs about them, get to know them more and explore countless possibilities with him/her.
Moreover you want to open yourself and your heart to him/her, tell him/her exciting stuffs about you, allow them get to know and understand you more and take on adventures together.
No matter how eager or in loved you are, there are certain things about your past you should hold back just yet as revealing them may negatively impact a tender or growing love.
1. S3xual Details
As a growing relationship, s3xual discussions will inevitably come up from time to time. Avoid telling them in details how you did what you did behind closed door, they don’t need to hear them.
2. Body Count
Your partner does not expressly need to know how many people you have shagged in the past. They do not deserve this information, especially if you have had a lot of sex partners in the past. You are trying to start afresh and build something passionate and long lasting aren’t you? Keep this detail to yourself!
3. You Do Not Like His/Her Family
It is not abnormal not to like your partner’s family when you get to meet them. However understand that this is his/her family and he or she holds them in high esteem. Keep your feelings to yourself if you like him/her and want to continue the relationship. You don’t have to like the family to be at peace with them, just be a good person and respect yourself.
4. Ab0rti0ns You Have Done
No one is as open minded as you think. Don’t go telling your new man about how you did several ab0rti0ns in the past, it could scare him away. You cannot imagine the kind of thought that comes to mind suddenly. Besides, there may be a problem tomorrow and you are separated from him. You don’t want to imagine what would happen if he opened his mouth.
5. That You Still Love Your Ex
The way you will feel if you were the receiver of this news is the way they will probably feel too. Sometimes it’s not easy to move forward, but when he is with her, you forget the past and start again, right? Please do not destroy the feelings and emotions that should be retained in the past.
