8 Things A Man Does When He Is Scared Of You Leaving Him
1. He Sacrifices for you.
One of the first sign of a man who is scared of losing you is his ability to sacrifice for the relationship to work. Be it his time, money, emotions or personality in other to stick with you and make the relationship(dating or marriage) a perfect one.
When a man does these wholeheartedly, it is a sign he is scared of losing you. It’s a sign he places value on you, irrespective of how little he invests in keeping the relationship alive. All he does can’t be underrated, and it’s necessary when he is scared of losing you.
2. The Fights Don’t Last.
Even heated argument don’t last any longer, and you find him ready to accept your apologies each time you say them. Unlike before were he would rally on his shoulders with so much guts and all your apologies will fall on deaf ears.
3. He acts Protectively
Acting protectively is one of the traits of a man who is genuinely in love. When he doesnt say protective words like “Bae, who is on the phone? Who was that guy? Where were you when i called?” chances are that he might be viewed as being jealous, but inside of him, he is being protective of you and scared someone else is after his woman.
So many ladies gets turn off on hearing this often from their man. Some view it as lack of trust, but certainly not what it is in most cases.
In this case, he needs concrete respond from you as a faithful wife or girlfriend. And everything would be solved. And repeated times, it builds the confidence in him.
No hard feelings about this sign. A man that is scared of losing you will speak and act protectively.
4. Apologizes willingly.
A man that apologizes willingly is ready to make amendment, and when he is ready for this, it means he is willing to enjoy whatever peace he finds from you.
This is a sign he do not want whatever the outcome of his short comings would bring to the relation. Like separation while married or relationship break up.
A good thing about a man who apologizes willingly without being told says it all. It could explain how ready he is to make things work out in the marriage or courtship. It signifies a man that is God-fearing, homely and scared of losing whatever value you’ve brought to his life.
5. Open-minded
When a man is open-minded, he makes you see through him and holds no secret back from you.
If you two are in an open-minded relationship, he let you get access to other private informations, his phones and gadgets and keys to his apartment, even without requesting.
He is trying to make himself more accessible to you. And he only does this when he is scared of losing you due to whatever doubt that may arises in your heart against him. So, he tries to make himself more transparent before you.
6. He respects you
A man who respects his woman isn’t a weakness, it is a sign that she has earned it. Hence, when he respects you unconditional it is simply the personality in you, in which you’ve presented to him playing out.
Respect for men is quite related to the personality a lady takes to them. A man could claim loving you but lack respect for you. But once respect is earned fully, it comes with some sort of fear that would definitely scare him of losing you.
Nevertheless, when a man is scared of losing you, automatically you start finding out that you are earning the desiring respect either in the relationship or marriage. You don’t yearn for it, but comes naturally, all in a bid to keep you.
7. He cares about how you feel
With him, you feel safe. And your heart can feel it deeply too.
He treats your feelings like a fragile treasure. He isn’t rash and he is prudent when it comes to matters that concern you. He will never get back at you even when he is upset.
When he knows the things that hurt you, he will do his best to avoid those. You and your feelings matter to him.
8. He wants to meet all of your needs
When a guy fears losing you, he strives to help make all your dreams come true.
He goes the extra mile and does things he doesn’t normally do just to satisfy your needs. Making you stay with him is his top priority and he will be ready to do anything in his power to make you do.
Most importantly, he will never question the rationality of your dreams. He will respect you and just simply help you achieve those.
He won’t think twice about painting the town green if that’s what makes you happy.
