Even when you are still in love, bravely leave your relationship ASAP if you notice these 6 signs
1. Aʙᴜsᴇ
Whether it’s physical, emotional, or mental ᴀʙᴜsᴇ, you should never tolerate this in a relationship. The moment you experience this, don’t just walk away – run far from the relationship.
No one should be subjected to ᴀʙᴜsᴇ of any kind, especially if it’s brought about by a person whom you thought you could trust.
If you’ve undergone emotional, physical, or s3xual ᴀʙᴜsᴇ because of your partner, that’s one of the best reasons to break up with someone and look for a person who actually cares about your wellbeing. The longer you stay in an abusive relationship, the more you’ll lose yourself.
2. Constant Arguments
Some arguments are actually healthy in a relationship and having them isn’t bad.
But it becomes a different ball game the moment arguments becomes the order of the day.
Some would say opposites attract. Well at the beginning it might look so.
But if you are looking at a longterm commitment then being too opposite just makes the relationship a lot harder.
When you guys have to argue every minute over everything and don’t see eye to eye on a lot then it’s a sign you might need to move on.
3. You’re constantly sacrificing yourself for them
A relationship is meant to be a partnership where both parties make sacrifices for each other when necessary.
When one partner is sacrificing or giving way more than the other–be it financially, emotionally, mentally etc.
And no amount of communication has remedied the situation, then love can’t save it either. You need to leave.
4. ɪɴғɪᴅᴇʟɪᴛʏ
If your partner has cheated on you, and you can’t find it in your heart to forgive them or to let go of a grudge, then this can be reason enough to end things.
Even if you do try to mend the relationship, trust isn’t that easy to repair in relationships.
On the other hand, if you were the unfaithful one, you may say that you no longer believe that your relationship will work because of what you did.
5. No future
Even if you imagined a future with your partner before, you need to realize that people change and grow.
So if you don’t see a future with your partner, it’s one of the valid reasons to break up with someone.
You don’t have to feel like the bad person in your story because why would you settle for someone you don’t see a future with?
Common interest shouldn’t be the sole reason your relationship is still working. You have to plan and envision what your life will be like in a few years.
6. You’re s3xually incompatible
We all have different desires and needs when it comes to s3x. But what happens if your partner’s are different from yours? You won’t admit it at first because you’ll try to make the relationship work.
In the long run, s3xual incompatibility will become so evident that you can no longer ignore it. Or, it can also be possible that you learn something about yourself that makes your s3xuality different altogether.
