After months or years of being in a relationship, it’s easy to let some things fly when your guy does you wrong. We all make mistakes in a relationship, but there are some things that guys do that should never be forgiven. By letting him get away with things that are disrespectful to you and your relationship, you’ll only be headed toward a lifetime of betrayal, disrespect, and sadness. Here’s are list of some of the most awful things your man can do to damage your relationship, and the reasons why you should NEVER forgive him.
1. He ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛs on you
The betrayal comes when a guy steps outside of his relationship and hooks up with someone else. It’s crushing, it’s damaging, and it can send your entire life into a tailspin. Yes, people do have the ability to change their ways, but what if he doesn’t? Do you really want to give him the opportunity to ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ on you again…and again…and again? ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ brings a whole new level of distrust and disrespect into a relationship, and many times, it’s best to cut your losses and move on to someone else who respects you enough to be monogamous.
2. He keep texting his Ex.
Exes are a tricky subject when it comes to new relationships. Unless your guy has been living under a rock his whole life, he’ll probably have an ex or two lingering around. If he’s strictly platonic with these past lovers, there’s nothing to worry about. But if you discover he’s sending flirty messages to his ex-girlfriend, then honey, don’t forgive him. It’s time for you to get a new boyfriend.
3. He ᴀʙᴜsᴇs you.
Whether it is emotional or physical ᴀʙᴜsá´‡, it is something that should not be tolerated in a relationship. When your partner ᴀʙᴜsá´‡s you, they have some serious problems and you don’t deserve to live your whole life in fear. He should be your protector and not someone you fear. Well, don’t believe him when he says it just happened by accident and it won’t happen again because it will. Remember once a ᴋɪʟʟᴇʀ, always a perpetrator.
4. He lies to you on several occasions.
Yes, all of us tend to tell a few white lies time and again. But if you’ve noticed how your guy keeps lying to you about the smallest of things, and about things that don’t really matter just for the heck of it, then you might just be in a relationship with a pathological liar. And if he can’t even speak the truth on the little things, how will you ever trust him with things that actually matter? There might even come a time when you’re unable to distinguish his lies from the actual truth. And my advice would be to leave before you allow that to happen.
5. He pressures you
Your man shouldn’t pressure you to do things that you are not comfortable with. If you don’t like something he does, you need to tell him how you feel about that. Explain to him that different people like different things and that he should be okay with that. If he still persists with what he wants, without asking you for your permission, then you shouldn’t have anything to do with him.
6. He never makes you a priority.
It’s okay to put yourself first, but if your guy puts everyone around you first and you ends up last, then you have a problem. Maybe he’s not in love with you anymore and maybe he won’t see you two together forever. But a real man, he loves his girlfriend will always put her first, especially at the beginning of the relationship. When you see that your man is not giving you the love you deserve and that you are not happy with him, it is time to give up on him. He obviously did that a long time ago made to you.
7. He disrespects you
A guy who curses at you or belittles you is a man that has no business being in your life. You shouldn’t put up with disrespect from anyone, so go ahead and send this guy packing! We tend to overlook these issues as they don’t seem as big as some of the other problems couples face but this is a big issue and should not be taken lightly.
8. He disrespects you family and friends.
A guy who truly loves you will be more than eager to know the people in your life better. He will look for ways to connect with the people who are important in your life just so he can feel even closer to you. It doesn’t matter how annoying your family might be. It doesn’t matter how different he is from your friends. If your guy isn’t even making an effort to know them better and doesn’t leave a single chance to make a joke about them, then it’s clear that he doesn’t really care enough about this relationship.
9. He blames you for all the problems
If you’re in a relationship with a man who blames you for everything bad, then it’s something what you need to talk to him about. If you’re having problems, they’re connected to both of you and not just you, and he needs to understand that. But if he refuses to admit he’s guilty of something and says it’s all yours Guilt, then he should have nothing to do with your life. Trust me, you’ll be better off without him.
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