Even When You Are In Love With A Man So Much, Never Do These Things For Him
1. Ignore your dreams
Ladies, your man should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.
2. Modify your values
Moral values and principles form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Don’t try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if both of you don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so!
3. Changing your look
Subtle changes like dressing and styling ones are acceptable. But if your man wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He’d better admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.
4. Sacrifice your personal space
Never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with your loved one (family and friends) just because your man wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.
5. Forgetting who you are
You shouldn’t try to act what you are not. Never show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting stupid is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so!
6. Handing over the reins
No matter how much you love him, never give him the access to be in control of you. The decisions should always be mutual. He should never make the final decision of what you should and shouldn’t do. Always discuss with him, but make your decision keeping your own lifestyles and choices in mind.
