When men feel like they’ve caught you, that you’ll never leave them, they start to forget about you. They are convinced that you will spend the rest of your life with them, so they simply stop trying. They stop investing in the relationship and stop worrying about possibly losing you. Sometimes they even ignore you.
Let’s take a look at some ways that will make him realize he’s losing you!
1. Talk to him about your concerns
If you’re feeling like he’s taking you for granted or pulling away, sit down and talk to him about it. Be honest about how you’re feeling and make him realize he will soon lose you if he doesn’t change. Your boyfriend might not know he’s about to lose you if you don’t communicate your feelings to him.
So, Don’t hide your emotion and expect him to figure out you are about to leave him, tell him how you feel. If he doesn’t want to lose you he will listen to you and change for good. If he doesn’t change, then he doesn’t care if he will lose you or not.
2. Spend less time with him
When you spend less time with him, he will soon realize that something is wrong and this is not how you used to relate with him.
He will soon figure out why you have decided to spend less time with him if you can maintain that distance for a long time. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. He will soon start thinking he is already losing you when he finds out that you no longer give him your time or go out with him. This will make him miss you, crave your attention or presence and also acknowledge that he is about to lose you.
3. Don’t always be there for him
Making a guy work harder to get the attention he used to get freely will make him believe he’s about to lose you. If you have the habit of helping him out each time he needs your help, you have to sit back and think about it. Stop being there for him. Make him work harder to get your attention and help.
4. Stop trying to please him
It is normal for every girl to try to please her boyfriend, but when you discover that your guy doesn’t deserve your love anymore, stop trying to please him. For example, cancel plans or decline his requests if he’s taking you for granted. This will make him realize he has hurt you and worry about losing you.
5. Don’t show you care
Get away from him. Don’t ask him where he was or what he was doing. Don’t ask about his friends or his plans, and don’t wait for him to ask you out like you have nothing else to do.
Don’t talk to anyone about what’s going on in your life. Use this time to work on yourself and do the things you like.
Let him do what he wants and don’t oppose it. If he cares about you, he’ll probably be worried that you’re not responding like you used to, and he’ll wonder why.
6. Find a new hobby
You need your world to stop revolving around it. You need to show him that you are perfectly fine without him. The best way to do this is to start doing new things. This will enrich your social life – you will hang out with people who like the same things as you. The most important thing is to show your man that you can function perfectly without him.
7. Flirt with others
If you are not happy with your relationship, you can always leave without destroying your dignity and starting an affair. However, this does not mean that you should not flirt with other men, even if you are in a relationship and especially if it will help save your relationship.
However, do this only if absolutely necessary. If a man is not giving you any attention, do something about it and show him that there are men out there who would be happy to be in his place.
8. Stop responding to his calls and texts
Don’t always be at his disposal. He’s used to you responding immediately to his texts and phone calls and always being there. By changing these behavior patterns, you will show him what his life would look like without you in it.
Don’t answer his calls, ignore his texting. He will wonder; why are you not available? What’s going on here? He will see what his life would be like without you.
9. Improve your appearance
A simple change in your appearance can make your guy rethink and be afraid of losing you. Maybe he has been taking you for granted simply because he has found someone he thinks is better than you. So, why not prove him wrong by improving your life and your appearance to make him regret losing you?
