Letting go is never easy, especially when love, time and efforts have been devoted into the relationship. But, if you are in an impossible relationship and still hope that things will turn better, despite the endless emotional hurt and constant lies, it doesn’t deserve. Because finally you will be the person hurt. So, if you have experienced any 1 out of 5 things, perhaps you should consider saying goodbye to your painful relationship.
1. Chᴇating
Cheating doesn’t only apply to your partner sleeping around: so long as there’s something they’re hiding, lying or not being truthful, that’s considered cheating. Don’t kid yourself by finding those excuses to cover up their wrongs just to make your heart feels better. You will eventually forgive, but you will never forget and down the road, you are bound to bring up that incident, so why strain the relationship?
2. Violᴇncᴇ
Violᴇncᴇ grow and it just get more serious over time. Something will eventually be smashed or someone will eventually get injured. However, I see this more like an illness rather than a character. Do advise your partner to seek professional help because counseling and medication may be the cure for it.
3. No More Feel
The lu$t and love just wear off, and couples just aren’t in love with one another like they do in the past anymore. They take each other for granted because they assume they already own their partners hence affection, surprises or excitement are no longer needed. I’ve always treated mine very diffently because I never ever want my partner to get bored of me (unfortunately I’m currently single so nobody to let me experiment on ). Here’s the tip – Grow to become more and more interested in your partner as each day passes by and make every day feels even more exciting than the first date. Do not slacken on your image and always upkeep to look and be your very best.
4. Selfishness
Selfish partners are self-centred and they will always be their own top piority in whatever they are planning, thinking or doing. You will always be second best and they will not care about your well being and feelings because theirs matter more. You end up giving a lot more in the relationship because you bother whereas they don’t. It is almost impossible to stay with a partner who is selfish UNLESS you are of the same kind.
