If You Feel Your Husband Loses Spark In Your Love Life, Here’s The Tips To Keep Him Interested
1. Be his confidence booster.
Positive words and encouragements from a man’s partner can go a long way. Contrary to their external appearance, men are like babies, who crave for compliments and affection. Boost his confidence, by validating his image about himself. This will enable him to open up with you. Tell him directly or subtly whatever you like about him. Telling him that you love him once a day will make him feel good.
2. Pamper him randomly and regularly.
Addressing his emotional and intellectual needs are important. His favorite colors, favorite reads, movies, books, et al should be at your fingertips. Surprise him occasionally by gifting his favorites to him. Find out the recipe of his favorite snacks, dishes and drinks. Keep them ready for him when he’s back from office. Adopt yourself to his likes, dislikes and moods.
3. Appearance matters.
Wear clothes, shoes and makeup that suit your taste and personality, and also his taste at the same time. However, do not overdo the makeup. Men like natural looks. Remember the efforts you put in, in the first few months of your relationship? Try to keep it as fresh as that by constantly appealing to his basic instincts. All these efforts will also make you feel confident and good about you. Men like that in women.
4. Smell the scent of seduction.
Every man gets turned-on by the sweet scent of a woman. Now imagine you find a fragrance he gets stuck to, you’d have him into you at every whiff of your perfume.
5. Sing his praises.
Help him focus on the positive things. Help him to appreciate the brighter side of any bad event so as to keep him from being depressed. Encourage him in all his endeavors, and tell him that you have full faith in him. Even if he makes a blunder, instead of making faces and rolling your eyes, wish him better luck next time. Praise him for making an effort.
If he wants to vent out his anger and frustrations at you, let him do so. Vague hints that he has power over you, will give him a sense of security. Make him feel, that you are always there behind him. Even if there is a major disagreement with him, never use extra-harsh words, as that may cause irreparable damage to your relationship.
6. Experiment.
Make an attempt at seducing him by buying attractive lingerie especially for him. He will find you irresistible. Experiment more in bed with him and let him experiment too, complimenting his every performances. Same old routines are a bore and can bore out your marriage.
7. Experiment.
Make an attempt at seducing him by buying attractive lingerie especially for him. He will find you irresistible. Experiment more in bed with him and let him experiment too, complimenting his every performances. Same old routines are a bore and can bore out your marriage.
8. Do the dew.
No one likes a figurehead, and certainly not the man whom you chose to spend the rest of your life with. Don’t always expect him to take the initiative while you lay on the bed waiting. Taking initiatives at times makes him feel wanted. But most of all be natural at bed. Don’t over do it. It can be a turn off.
