Ladies, 10 ways to keep him completely and totally in love only with you.
Most men don’t cheat because they don’t love you anymore. Men cheat because they want more variety in their sex life.
Some complain that they get bored. They want to feel loved by their partners. They want to assert their freedom. They are tired of being disappointed.
They want a partner who puts them at the center of their life, and they no longer feel they are the priority in yours.
So here are 10 ways to keep your man from cheating on you:
1. Be willing to make love.
Men equate physical intimacy with desire. Help your man feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.
2. Be open to experimentation.
Allow your man to try new things with you. If you don’t, there will be someone else who will. I am not saying to engage in intimate physical activity that you find repulsive, but to allow yourself to try new things with the man you love.
3. Don’t get too comfortable.
Men enter relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks like and this often contrasts with who they may have casually dated. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be and, in doing so, lose themselves. One day, your man realizes that this is what you asked for, but he’s not sure it’s what you really want.
Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.
4. Don’t become too controlling.
Often, without realizing it, when we enter into a relationship, we try to control the other person to do what is in our best interest.
We adopt destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing, and bribing or rewarding to control.
5. Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him.
Sometimes when women “fix” their man and get married, they begin to have a false sense of security. Remember that all relationships are voluntary.
A person can leave at any time. You have to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply acquire it.
6. Let him have time for himself.
Some men cheat because they begin to feel ambushed in the relationship.
Let your man have time to himself without you. Be open to him spending time apart with his friends, pursuing his hobbies, etc., so he doesn’t feel like he doesn’t have freedom.
7. Be aware of his emotions.
Your man wants to know that he lights you up, not that he constantly disappoints you.
We communicate anger, rage, sadness and disappointment to our partner.
Instead of taking that as a sign to do something different, some men start looking for another partner who idolizes them like you did.
8. Prioritize your relationship.
Prioritize your relationship above all else. This is the relationship you want to keep for the rest of your life. Other things will go away and the relationship will continue to exist if you treat it with care.
It could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity, or anything that puts your man lower on your totem pole than the top position.
9. Learn his love language.
Learn your man’s love language and talk to him regularly. He will know he is loved and will remain faithful to you.
10. Find your relationship pattern.
Some men simply believe that it is difficult for their genes to have sex with as many women as possible. Try to recognize these men early on by asking about their dating history.
If this is a pattern with your man, he probably won’t change just because you want him more. Your best defense against this problem is to be discriminating from the start.
Source:za.opera.news, home-tricks.info
