Reasons why men can’t forgive their cheating partners easily
1. It questions a man’s prowess in bed
When a lady cheats, that is one of the most bothersome issues on the man’s mind. Was it that he wasn’t good in bed? Was the other man bigger and better? Generally, men find it difficult to live with that as those questions keep gnawing at their insides.
2. Cheating makes men feel disrespected
Somehow, men have been conditioned from childhood that disrespect from a woman is one of the highest evils. They are the lords of their own manor and expect the utmost considerations from their partners.
Cheating, to men, is the highest form of disrespect and must not be tolerated. In some societies, men go to extremes and kill their wives for cheating without consequences.
3. Emotionally, women are stronger than men
There is so much talk about the ‘strong silent type‘ man women love, but the truth is quite different.
Perhaps, because men are expected to bottle their feelings up and not be emotional, they tend to overreact to situations that require actions to be taken. A lifetime of bottling up feelings has left men unable to deal adequately with deep cuts.
4. He feels violated
Deep down, men look at women the way a rich man treats his property. A rich believes he has the exclusive right to everything he owns because he worked hard for it. Rightly so.
Although men won’t admit it in this age, that is the same way we look at our women. They are exclusively ours and nobody has the right to tamper with them without our permission.
A cheating woman is the equivalent of the violation and trespassing of the rich man’s property. Men usually take extreme measures to deal with issues like that.
