Never let yourself put up with these 4 things in a relationship
Relationships come in all different forms, and there’s no ‘one size fits all’ formula when it comes to our significant others. Every romance has its ups and downs that couples have to learn to navigate through if they want any chance of surviving. And while we all have our unique deal breakers that are based on personal experience and preferences, there are some things NONE of us should put up with in relationships, no matter what. If any of these are happening to you, stop suffering, it’s likely time to get out now.
1. phчsícαl víσlєncє
Even though this seems like a given many people stay in relationships despite phчsícαl víσlєncє. Draw the lines and know for yourself that there is no justification for physically lashing out at your partner.
While it may start with a simple push or a hair pull, it could easily escalate within no time if not nipped in the bud.
Everybody gets upset sometimes but there are a multitude of ways of dealing with anger and negative emotions, none of which involve being ᴘʜʏsɪᴄᴀʟʟʏ ᴀʙᴜsɪᴠᴇ.
2. Throwing your past at you
All of us have a past and at some point, you’ve shared some of it with your SO. But if they throw it at you during arguments or as an excuse to blackmail you, take heed. Don’t allow it. It makes you vulnerable. Take a stand!
3. Domination: Nobody needs a controlling partner.
“Who did you speak to?” “Where were you?” “Why did you shake hands with him?” “Where are you going?”—none of these indicate care.
Remember that you are your own person with your own life and rulebook. Questions like these imply that there need to be rules in place for both of partners. Such insecurity is often an indication of much deep-seated trust issues that will only get progressively worse with time if not dealt with at the beginning.
4. Verbal insults
Your family and friends are important to you and should be treated with respect and dignity by your SO. Being moody, grumpy or right out insulting should not be taken lying down. Teasing or joking is OK up to a point but making fun of you or people you care about should not be taken lightly.
5. Constant lying
A habitual liar will lie to his family, his boss, his friends and ultimately even to you. It may seem like a NBD in the beginning because it usually starts with tiny white lies but once you find out about them, keep a close watch. They’ll get out of hang before you know it! Incessant liars do not take responsibility for their actions and cannot be trusted.
6. Infidelity
Be it emotional chєαtíng or physical—this one’s a total no-no. Neither are they normal nor casual. You need to be with someone who values commitment and your relationship as well. As the saying goes, once a chєαtєr always a chєαtєr.
References: bebeautiful.in, bolde.com
