Some ladies believe when a guy is not giving them attention, it means they are very busy but the smart ones know when a guy is not giving them attention in a relationship, then it’s because they are not doing something right.
We have this list of signs that show your man is not mad or busy or at you but rather, you’re just irrelevant to him.
1. Your friends are sick of hearing about him, but his friends don’t even know who you are, he never bothers to introduce you to them.
2. None of his family members know who you are.
3. He straight-up doesn’t respond to some of your texts or calls.
4. You’ve never hooked up sober.
5. If you have hooked up sober, it was in the morning after a drunk hook up.
6. You guys have never shared a meal together nor talk of feeding each other in a romantic way.
7. If you have shared a meal together, it was either late-night pizza or hungover morning bagels.
8. He whatsapps you more than he calls you.
9. You’ve never been on a real date with him.
10. …If you have been on a date, it was one time. And it never happened again.
11. You’ve never spoken on the phone unless it was 4 am, and you needed him to buzz you up to his place.
12. He makes really big promises that he literally never keeps.
13. He never wants to hang out in the morning.
14. Most of your text conversations are initiated by you.
15. …Except for the drunk texts he sends to you and probably 15 other girls.
16. He never wants to cuddle with you.
17. He chooses even the dumbest events over you.
18. His friends (the same ones who don’t know who you are) always come before you.
19. The only time he ever soberly calls you is when he’s extremely bored.
20. He makes literally no effort with your friends.
21. You asked him to do something months in advance, and he rejected you because he “wasn’t sure what his plans were gonna be that far out.”
22. You’ve told him a million personal things about you, and he can barely remember any of it.
23. He’s told you he’s “not looking for anything serious.”
24. He told you he was too busy to hang out, then posted a whatsapp story of himself alone on the couch.
25. Part of you is afraid that if you stopped putting in the effort, your relationship would completely fizzle out.
Dear ladies, if you are experiencing any of the above signs in your relationship, just stop wasting your time in such a relationship and move on with your life.
