The Mistakes That Make A Man Stop Appreciating You
1. Humans are intelligent and terribly direct creatures
They are sure that if a woman does something (cooks, washes, dresses, gives gifts, etc.) – it is only because she herself likes it! Male logic rarely pays attention to the fact that all these efforts are primarily related to him to appreciate and love her.
So the advice is to do whatever you decide, primarily for your own pleasure and satisfaction, not solely for the positive evaluation from your man! It is undeniably there, even if it is not expressed out loud. But a man’s good attitude, calmness in your company and in your common home are clear and definite enough signs that he really appreciates your every effort to make him happy.
Cook elaborate meals if that gives you pleasure and you want to bring something delicious to the table! Dress sexy if you don’t feel comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt. Be happy and he will be happy with you too!
2. Do men really not appreciate loving women?
If a woman is totally committed and loves her man to madness, there is nothing more normal than her taking care of him. But for some reason, men don’t seem to appreciate loving women. What is the reason for this?
There is a great wisdom and it is that you should try to be comfortable for yourself and not for others.
The more you love him, the more he will be grateful to you for everything, even if he doesn’t express it in words
What do you do to make your lover appreciate you?
Mistake 1
Take the following example – a woman does a lot for a man, but completely forgets about herself. The man sees that the woman is only focused on him, abandoning the development of her own self, and she immediately becomes uninteresting to him!
Mistake 2
And now the opposite situation – the woman cares only for herself and looks to satisfy only her own needs. And when she stops making efforts for things that are necessary and useful for both of them, she openly demonstrates that she is not interested in this relationship at all.
The Solution
Stop patronizing your partner, don’t turn him into a male idol, and be equal in importance in your relationship! Remember that you are a person with your own interests, goals and desires. As well as he himself. Once you realize that a family is a union of two equal partners, not a relationship between a king and a servant, everything will fall into place.
First of all, you need to realize that the problem is not in your partner, but in you. You don’t respect yourself, you get offended, you say “no” when you are complimented… And others just reflect your thoughts!
Learn to value and love yourself, find a foothold in yourself – and the world will change. You deserve it!
