You are confident to be yourself when you understand, believe in yourself and take control of your life. Here are some ways to help you can be yourself.
Set goals, and stick to your plan
Setting goals helps you define who you are, what you want, and motivate you to build your life. Sticking to a plan, in addition to helping you understand the process of working, it also helps you identify your emotional, ideological and rational developments to better understand yourself and adjust accordingly.
Always make efforts
You are only satisfied with what you have done or the result is as expected or not, when you have tried your best. If not, your victory is like a lucky chance, and failure will make you regret deeply. It is only when you make the best efforts, you’ll know your actual ability and the achievements will come according to your ability.
Accept your starting point and your weakness
You must not choose your parents, family background, the place of birth and grow up. If you are fortunate enough to thrive in a good environment, be grateful for your life. If not, accept your starting point, don’t complain or blame. So are your weaknesses, don’t complain about why you’re not smart like this person, not as clever as that person. Consider these disadvantages to be normal, as an incentive to try harder than others.
Believe in yourself
When you are trusted by someone, you will probably be motivated to work much better than usual. When you believe in yourself, you will control everything that happens in your life. You believe you can do it, the whole universe will help you do that (Alchemist). In addition, when you believe in yourself, you will keep your position, not be swayed by the effects of others.
Satisfied with the best version of yourself
You always want to be better, you will be confident when you are perfect. But you need to understand that, at each stage, every moment, you can be good to a certain extent. That limit is the best version of yourself, not the better version of everyone else. Please be satisfied with the best version. When you are satisfied with yourself, you will be confident.
