Top text messages that your man will love and make him desire you again
1. The flirty text
Maybe you two have been married for many years, and you have already sensed that the intimacy and passion have waned; surely, if you are not $_exually intimate with your man anymore but you and he are both happy, then that is still ok… However, “doing that” can always play a positive role in keeping a marriage alive. And some flirty texts can help add in a bit more spice into your bed life; by the way, you might leave something for his imagination while sending this type of text. For example, you might send your husband a text like “What do you want to do to me tonight?”, “I am lying in bed, I am waiting for you to come back…”, “I am feeling frisky, I can’ wait to see you…”
2. The “hard times” text
We inevitablyget into an intense argument with our spouses in our married life. Though you can not avoid them, it does not mean you have no control over them – you can try to conduct a conversation or argument. For example, after arguing with your husband, the next day you might send him a text like ”That was so rough yesterday, but I am glad that we still work together!” Surely, this type of text can not bring about substantial help, but it helps reframe the argument in a positive light.
3. The uplifting text
A man desires to feel supported especially when he is having a hard day. Therefore, send something encouraging or supportive to him. For instance, you might say something like “You always lift me up while I am down. Now you also need to be strong!”, “If you want me to do something, please let me know and I will always be there for you.”
4. The “feeling like a man” text
Your husband desires to feel like he is someone special to you, and wants you to treat him as a competent man at the same time. Remember, men are inherently competitive; and you can make him more infatuated with you by stimulating this instinct. So, for example, you might occasionally send him a text like “The world would become better if more men were like you!”, “If more guys were as thoughtful as you, more women would feel happy.”
Make sure that all the messages are real, thoughtful, and genuine. The more sincerity you put into your text messages, the more “warm fuzzies” he is going to feel.
5. The appreciation text
A man can hardly feel like the powerful and masculine dude that he deserves to be if he feels that his good work is not appreciated by his woman. An appreciation text can be as simple as “I appreciate your hard work for things you do for the family”.
6. The “I do” text
This type of simple textcan give your husband the “warm fuzzies”. Especially when he least expects you to show your loyalty and commitment (e.g. when he is in a financial crisis, when he is a mid-life crisis, when he lost his job, and when his family of origin is experiencing severe changes), the “I do” text can touch his heart. And this type of short and sweet text can be like “I never regret my decision to marry you”, “If you got down on bended knee, I would still stay “I do” again”
7. “I miss you” text
This type of text will make him feel that you want to be with him, it makes him feel cherished. Even tthough feelings for each other can change throughout the years, you need to keep nourishing the friendship with him to a deep extent that you miss him when you and he can’t spend adequate time together. In particular, no husbands do not want their wives to show concern for them when they are away for long periods.
