For a regular guy, decoding a girl is like solving a Sudoku puzzle designed by aliens. She is complex, paradoxical, and really not an easy riddle for the guys who take the word “nothing” to mean “nothing”. But in addition to being a complex biology, she is also someone who hides things. Following is a list of the common ways a girl behaves when she is hiding something.
1. She Seems Far Away
Maybe your girlfriend has started acting less present, always absent-minded or Not paying attention whenever you are together. Does she now look confused or easily forget things that are unusual or even out of her character?
If she seems cold and distant even on a topic she likes so much, then maybe she is hiding something. There may be many reasons why she is acting that way apart from keeping secrets. She may be in a problem or a difficult situation. All you need is to watch for other signs before concluding.
2. Avoiding Communication
She may start to avoid your calls, normal chit-chat, and physical meetings. She may start acting oddly, refusing to share about her day at work.
If she was a down-to-earth detailed lady before everything, you will surely notice. Her description may start coming out as vague, with her being short of words. She may start doing this to prevent her from talking excessively, so she doesn’t spill her secrets. That’s your girlfriend trying to be careful with her words in your presence.
3. Avoiding Eye Contact with you
If your girlfriend fails to meet your eyes during a conversation. She may be shy, has low self-esteem, not confident enough, or even uncomfortable. It could also be a sign that she is hiding something from you. It could be her conscience keeping her from maintaining eye contact. It could also be a way of preventing her from spilling out everything she is hiding. You may want to find out why she doesn’t maintain eye contact with you. People who are guilty of something bad have the habit of not maintaining eye contact.
4. Easily Annoyed and Over-Reacting
If she suddenly becomes annoying, and offended whenever she is with you, she may be hiding something from you. Even with a little thing, she is triggered and flares up easily. You may have to find out if that’s how she behaves before. But if it’s not, you will have to get to the root of the matter.
Flaring up and over-reacting may be an intentional act on her part. It may be a way for you to avoid a certain topic. Particularly, if she behaves this way when a certain topic is being discussed.
5. Privacy and Protectiveness
In a relationship, there should be personal privacy for each partner, but not to the extent of bringing separation between you two. If you notice that she has started pass-wording her phone around you. She changes her password frequently after telling you. Something isn’t right!
If she’s angry with the fact that you didn’t inform her before visiting. She warns you sternly never to visit without calling her, something she doesn’t complain about before. Then she is probably hiding something from you. That is her being unnecessarily secretive to ensure you don’t discover, what she is hiding by coincidence.
6. Seems Un-interested and Easily Bored
When a talkative girlfriend or fun-loving girl suddenly changes to be quiet, something is wrong. When your girlfriend that loves a certain food seems uninterested at the sight of it. Or she doesn’t appreciate a certain gift she once requested. And you have been looking for her mood for some time. You may want to ask her what the problem is.
If she keeps quiet about it or shrugs it off, then she doesn’t want you to know about it. She is hiding something from you, keeping serious secrets!
Sources: relationshipseeds.com, storypick.com
