You Should Be Proud If You Have A Husband With These Traits
1. He Loves Spending Time With You
Does he love being near you and tenderly show it? Does he laugh, make jokes, take your hand, touch your hair and make you feel like a special woman? Does your husband stay home and watch a romantic movie with you, or go out to eat because he likes being with you? If yes, you’ve married a good man.
A great sign that there is mutual love in a marriage is the desire to adapt to the good habits and preferences of one’s spouse. A lot of happy couples adapted to activities they didn’t like before, but they now enjoy them together. Don’t focus on whether you like the activity your husband likes, just appreciate and value the fact that he wants to spend time with you.
2. He Worries About You
If your husband is concerned for your safety and always makes sure that you’re well taken care of, both physically and emotionally, you’ve won the jackpot! A great husband will always want to make sure his wife is ok and out of harm’s way.
Some husbands were not brought up to be emotional, creative, and romantic, but that doesn’t mean they don’t care. Here’s a suggestion: when your husband wants to protect you from something, let him. Don’t resist, don’t complain; and above all, never think he underestimates you.
3. He Gives You Unconditional Support
A great husband will want to support you, even when the going gets tough. Life will hit you in many ways: you’ll stumble, you’ll fall, and you’ll get back up again. If your husband is the type of person who always sees the good things in life, stays positive when faced with adversity and cheers you up when you need it, you have a gem for a husband.
True love and support comes from someone who challenges you, stands beside you when you need them, and gives you the support to grow as a person. They sometimes might seem like the busiest person in the world or the least affectionate, but when you need them, they will drop everything for you.
4. He’s Faithful
For a great husband, no matter how many great looking women pass by, there is only one woman who owns his heart, and that woman is you. A faithful husband also avoids making continuous or excessive comments regarding other women’s looks. Sometimes it’s difficult and in some cultures it’s not considered ‘offensive’, but turning your gaze to another woman’s beauty is dangerous. If your husband is a faithful man, show him your admiration. His commitment to you should make you love him even more.
5. He Admits His Mistakes
We all make mistakes in life. And even a great husband is bound to mistakes but when he does, he doesn’t deny them but rather admits he was wrong and works to repair the damage he’s done. Recognizing one’s mistakes is a virtue, and the first step towards freedom, forgiveness, peace and success in marriage.
6. He Knows You and Respects Your Tastes
If your husband pays attention to the little things like your likes and your dislikes, and can recall them in the moments that you need him to the most, you should be proud of him. A husband who loves you will be able to adapt to you and set aside his own preferences to make things work. Be patient if your husband still struggles to recognize your preferences. Tell him how much you admire his attitude and his desire to change for you. Remember, any change he’s trying to make is out of love.
